There is no 1,2,3 fix me, and I am all good in the forgiveness area.

No - this subject takes time and practice.

Did you think the fairy would come and wave the magic wand over you and tah dah you’d forgive the person immediately?

Maybe in your dreams.

The reality of forgiveness is...

They fly fast and furious, coming out of nowhere, most of the time they are undetected until they hit their target. The target is the heart and once it pierces it is split wide open - to hurts of the past and insecurities within. This is the arrow of offense.

Offense has a lengthy list of...